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An update on COVID-19 Precautions
 
In response to concerns about coronavirus in North Texas, we are minimizing face-to-face contact for your safety and peace of mind. Since most interactions, including consultations, can be handled by phone or email, we request that you assist us in limiting in-person contact unless you require a personal meeting. Will executions continue to be handled in the office while maintaining as safe a distance as possible. For those concerned about payments, we can accept payments via phone and mailed checks.
 
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Guiding You Through Complex Legal Matters

Guiding You Through Complex Legal Matters

Consider letting your child have a say in where to live

| May 7, 2020 | Firm News

Depending on the age of your son or daughter, he or she may have strong personal opinions about which parent to live with after a divorce. As a parent, though, just how much attention and consideration should you give to your child’s personal preferences? 

Many authorities on divorce and how children fare afterward argue that there are notable benefits in giving your child a say as to where he or she lives after a split. 

Arguments in favor of letting kids decide 

Upon learning of your divorce, your child may feel as if he or she is losing control. By giving children a voice when it comes to where to reside, post-divorce, you are letting them know that their opinions are still valid and important to you. 

Ultimately, it was you, your former partner or the two of you together who decided to end the marriage — not your child. Therefore, you and the child’s other parent should both do your parts to reduce your child’s potential distress in the aftermath as much as possible. 

When your child chooses the other parent 

If your child ultimately prefers to spend the majority of his or her time living in the other parent’s home, you may understandably feel hurt and rejected. Try to conceal these feelings as much as possible, though, and do your part to ensure that you and your son or daughter still spend meaningful time with one another. 

Even if you are not fully on board with the decision your child makes, know that you may be doing what is most advantageous for your family in the long run. By allowing your child the freedom to make his or her own decisions, you just may strengthen the relationship that exists between you. 

Contrary to popular belief, divorce on its own does not always cause irreparable harm to children. Instead, it is other factors, such as continued fighting among parents, that may do so. Giving your child a say in where to live may help prevent this type of conflict.